07 August, 2012

It's a....

BOY!

We had our anatomy scan today and found out early in the scan that our little (heirloom) tomato (approximate size at 19 weeks) is a boy.  He was very very active and the ultrasound tech had to chase him all over to get all the pictures she needed.  I'm betting I will soon be getting sore ribs and internal organs from this activity, but right now it still feels like little flicks of the finger or (what I think) a kernel of popcorn would feel like if it popped in my belly.  We will get the full report about development in September.  The fun parts are the cute pictures we got out of it and learning the sex.  Thankfully he mostly cooperated!

No names decided yet!  We still have a ways to go on this, but we have plenty of time.  I'm a few days shy of "half way" based on due date.  We'll be thinking hard about it.

Without further ado, here is our little boy showing off for the ultrasound wand!


Yum Yum hand!  It is pretty obvious where the head, arms, and legs are.  The darker spot towards the top of the torso is the heart.  

Still waving his hands in his face.  

The whitish area on the back of the torso is the spinal column.
Long legs and feet...you can even see the toes a bit

This is our alien baby.  Alien head to the right, freakish single foot with four toes on the left.  Bwahahaha. 

Check out his other side.  Which is more photogenic?  

A bit blurred, but you can see some bones (the bright white areas)

And this is the shot that showed us that he is a boy.  Butt to the right, legs to the left, and the middle part shows his parts.  It was more clear a few times on the screen, but the tech didn't capture it in time.  Brian and I both noticed it before she got this picture and told us.  This was no more than 5 minutes into the scan, so we were lucky that baby cooperated!

Our tech was super nice and very cool.  She even spent a few minutes after the official picture getting for the anatomy scan requirements to show us some good profiles that got us some of these pictures.  I still find ultrasounds totally cool.  And it was pretty amazing how the tech could find the kidneys and heart and just zone in on them in seconds.  Sometimes it was just a different shade and I never would have thought it was anything special.  The heartbeat was nice and strong and about 156bpm.  He is very active.


01 August, 2012

Maternity Ward Tour


Brian and I took a maternity ward tour yesterday.  We took it pretty early because it is only offered on Tuesdays at 1300 (1pm) and I don't want to miss work and I start next week.

So Bethesda is a pretty cool hospital when it comes to delivery.  I am pleased after the tour.  I feel like they are a happy medium when it comes to policy.  Here are the highlights.

I will labor, deliver and do a few hours of recovery in the same room.  All rooms have one bed, a rocking chair, a birthing ball, squat/birthing bars, a small fold out couch (the nurse recommended air mattresses over the couches), a few chairs, a spacious bathroom with a walk-in, sit-in shower, the baby's hospital bassinet thingy, TV, and probably anything else you can think of except for a birthing tub.  The rooms themselves are very spacious and could probably hold 4-5 people comfortably even with staff coming in and out.  They showed us how they take apart the bed for delivery and explained how it helps when baby comes out.  They have posters of suggested positions for the birthing ball, allow you to labor in the shower for a bit (not birth there), require 20 minutes out of every hour to be on a monitor (but I can move around when not on the monitor).

Since the staff is there on rotating shifts and you can't guarantee a specific provider for your delivery, no one is in a rush so they can go home, go on vacation, etc.  The surgeons and anesthesiologists are on the same type of shift schedule and most are military.  None are paid by the procedure so there is no pressure for epidurals or csections although their csection rate is close to all the other hospitals in the area.

Babies stay in the room with mom at all times except for a few exceptions:  weighing (out in the hall) and a few standard tests/procedures that we can accompany if we want.  All nurses and main staff members are trained to assist with breastfeeding, latching, etc and lactation consultants are available about 14 hours a day during the weekdays.  As a first time mom, I'll be required to stay for 48 hours before release even if everything is peachy.  They provide everything that is needed for baby except the take home outfit/blanket and carseat (which they inspect to make sure baby fits into correctly before we are allowed to leave.  They also highly encourage us to take the carseat with our car to the fire department just outside the hospital to ensure that the carseat fits right in our car and we know how to lock it in).   They even encourage that we take home all the diapers, bulb syringe/nose thingies, brushes (great for cradle cap apparently but are OR brushes so they can't be bought), wipes, pretty much everything but their shirts and blankets.

It is a training hospital so there may be doctors in training helping with delivery and any other procedures.  I get PAs, Nurse Practitioners, etc in training all the time so I'm not too concerned about this.  When anything complex or important is happening, the (attending? is that the right word?) fully qualified doctor is there to supervise.   For the less important stuff (asking questions, routine stuff like checking pulse and stuff) they might be there on their own, but the qualified doctor dude follows up.  Some people seem concerned about this (one person asked "Can we refuse a training doctor?"), but it doesn't bother me really.  I know I won't be their first patient.  It takes a lot to get to that level.  I don't know all the details of how, but I'm pretty sure every form of medical training requires education on childbirth.

Immediately upon birth, baby and mom get tagged with what they jokingly call baby Lojack.  Babies don't even leave the room for the neo-natal intensive care unit (NICU) until this band is on.  These tags will cause an alarm that goes off if the baby leaves the maternity ward.  This alarm locks down the hospital and the entire post until all babies currently admitted to the ward are accounted for.  The NICU and csection operating rooms, etc are all right down the hall in the same ward.  So once mom is admitted she really doesn't leave the general area.

They reminded us all that they appreciate birthing plans, but that everything is driven by the mother's body and the baby and sometimes due to those two factors, they can't stick to the plan.  Their policies are pretty liberal.  I can have clear foods and liquids (Jello, sprite, popsicles, water, etc).  I can labor in almost any position and even when being monitored, the cord is pretty long and will allow me to reach the ball, rocker, etc.  We can rearrange the room in almost any way we want.  They encourage the baby be delivered to the mother's belly/chest, dad can cut the cord if he wants, they do everything possible to get baby breastfeeding within an hour after delivery (usually sooner and they highly encourage breastfeeding).

Overall I feel very comfortable with this hospital and the setup/policies.  I'm actually afraid I will be a bit spoiled with this, and with my next kid I won't have great facilities.  For all I know though, this stuff can all be pretty standard.  I just feel like I hear about some hospitals requiring a bunch of stuff to make life easier on the staff or because that is how it was done in the past and putting the mothers' wants at the bottom of the list.  (Hell, they even has a snack room where they keep popsicles, jello, etc for us to use during labor).

31 July, 2012

Routine Dr Appointment

I am posting this from my phone so sorry for any mistakes.
I just left my 16-20 week appt. Everything is right on track. I didnt like the provider as well, but she was nice. Fundal height is right on track for 18 weeks. Sweet Potato's heart beat was 146 bpm. My blood pressure was a bit higher but they weren't concerned.
The practitioner told me that the umbilical cord pulse was the same rate as baby and that is an indicator of good health. I love the doppler. It was worth it to have one at home.
My part one sequential screening blood work came back negative for increased defects risk so that is good.
That is all I have for now. I am taking a tour of the maternity ward in a bit. Hooray!!!!! Naptime in the car first though.

30 July, 2012

18 weeks

18 weeks:

Baby:
* about 5.5 inches long (about the size of a bell pepper or sweet potato)
* about 7oz
* lots of movements that I think I am starting to feel every once in awhile.  I felt one or two about 2 weeks ago, then I haven't noticed much since.  I think the difference is that I quit wearing my prepregnancy jeans.  So maybe I'm not squishing my little sweet potato so much now.
* fingerprints are formed
* yawning and hiccuping starts
* ear bones have hardened and baby can hear now

Me:
* showing more.  I promise a picture this week.  I promise.
* Hungry hungry hippo.  I'm having lots of snacks again.
* I've finally gained about 5 lbs, but that is probably only because I broke down and ate a bunch of oreos.
* I'm wearing maternity or yoga pants now.  I have bought some work maternity clothes.  My regular jeans are starting to dig a lot.
* I'm literally falling asleep for naps without intention.  In the past I felt fatigued and laid down.  Now, I'll be doing something while laying on the couch or bed or floor and I'll wake up an hour or two later.... hopefully this won't be an issue when I start work.

So I was suppose to start work on 4 September but that got moved to 6 August.  I'm nervous and excited.  I can't go on my trip to Europe now, but I'm getting a significant pay raise and more vacation time built up before baby.  I've started looking at my benefits package very closely and it looks like I will only qualify for short term disability and any vacation time I have which I may have to use for appointments.  I only get 3 weeks at 100% pay and then the rest would be at 60% pay.  Not sure what I'm going to do yet, but we'll figure it out.  During orientation I will ask how to get in contact with HR about it.  I don't want to wait too long to tell them.  Although I have seen some people that wait until they are 6 months to inform.

We bought our crib (we got it in dark brown) and some storage furniture and baskets for clothes and such.  Later the storage units can be put on a wall or moved somewhere else and the baskets can be taken anywhere in the house if need be.  We don't plan on getting much else furniture wise for the nursery.  We already have a bunch of corner shelves in there.  I'm working on cleaning out all the office stuff.  I haven't decided if we will need the closet or not.  We'll see once we get closer.  We probably will though.  Hopefully I'll have the office cleaned out by the end of this week so I can build the crib and the storage furniture.

25 July, 2012

17 Weeks

I was 17 weeks on Saturday, and I'm starting to show in jeans and a t-shirt/tank top.  My bump is easy to hide in some clothes still though.  I left my Indiana home on Saturday and flew back to Maryland.  I am happy to be home, but I miss everyone already.  It was a sad and happy trip.  My maternal grandmother passed, so I went to a funeral.  Then turned around two days later and had my baby shower.  Cycle of life stuff I guess, but it was a bit draining.

Not much to update this week.  I'm needing naps more than I have the last few weeks.  I start work on 6 August and I am very excited and nervous.

16 July, 2012

16 weeks and a shower

I am 16 weeks ("they" say baby is about the size of an avocado now!), and Jill threw me a baby shower back in my hometown.   

I'm really starting to show I think.  I will have K take a picture for me. 

The shower was a lot of fun.  Jill and my sisters put a ton of effort into it.  It was awesome, and I really can't thank them enough.   I've never had a shower or party like that before and it was a blast. 

Here are some pictures.  I have a few more, so ask if you want to see them.  I didn't put many of the people up in case anyone feels a bit weirded out by that.  You should be able to click on the pictures to make them bigger:


The shower was at my family's church in the fellowship hall.  It looked awesome!

These are just some of the decorations on the table.

Abby made cake pops for all the guests.

Another view where you can see the gift table in the back, the clothes line, and cake pops in the front.  The index cards were used for people to give me tips for being a mom and name recommendations. 

A table after we got the balloons.  A close friend of Jills got us the balloons for all the tables.  They were great!

This was my cake.  We don't know the sex of the kid yet so Jill made me a very beautiful colorful mystery cake.

Abby and Jill made these decorations for each window in the hall with posterboard/cardstock and tissue paper.  They turned out awesome and they really added to the room.

The flower/fan decorations up close. 

The guest table had envelopes for people to put their addresses on for a door prize, a plate for them to sign (not shown), some decorations, and a diaper tote filled with baby necessities that the guests had to look at for a price is right game. 

Close up on the cake.  The buttons were awesome!

A pair of booties that my mamaw gave me that fit perfect in a spot on the clothes line. 

Kendra and I made origami stars.  It was very easy but time consuming.  They looked too cute in baby food jars!

Another picture of a table with decorations.

A family friend playing the diaper game where you have to guess what kind of candy has been melted and squished in a diaper.

A family friend being grossed out by the diaper game. 

More fun with the diaper game

Me opening gifts (this is a cup that says "MOM" since the gifter said her mother always complained about not having her own cup for 18 years after having children.)

I got a few homemade blankets (which I love!) This one is being modeled by me and my cousin who was a great helper. 

Two of my grandmothers were able to make it to my shower.  I was so happy they could share the day with me.

Some of my mother's side of my family who were able to make it!

An awesome picture of balloons that Kendra took.  Thank you Kendra for doing all these pictures!

07 July, 2012

15 Weeks

I am 15 weeks today!  It feels like it is taking forever and going so fast at the same time.  I might be showing a bit now, but it is mostly pudge and organs and not so much uterus yet.  I'll try to update with a picture later if I can stand any of them.  I'm dealing with allergies or pregnancy rhinitis.  I'm not sure yet.  Symptoms are the same.  I can't call about allergy meds until Monday, since I waited too late to call yesterday.  The crappy thing is that I went almost two full years without allergy medicine and no major allergy issues.

About the baby at 15 weeks:
Length: About 4 inches long or the size of my fist.
Weight: about 2.5 ounces (babycenter.com says to imagine an apple)
Development:

  • Baby is taking in amniotic fluid through the nose to help in the development of the lungs.
  • Baby can move all the joints and limbs now.  
  • Baby can sense light (even though the eyelids are still closed) and will move away from light making it into the uterus.
  • Taste buds are forming.
  • The three ear bones are hardening.



Changes for me:
Everything I read says I should have gained about 5 pounds by now, but I haven't gained a pound.  I think I may have even lost a few.  I'm eating all the time, but I can't seem to eat very big portions.  Kind of unexpected that the time in my life that I can gain 20+ lbs and I can't seem to do it.  I mean, I can gain 20 lbs easy without pregnancy!  Bodies are weird

Everything I read says that nose stuffiness is a common symptom at this stage due to hormones and increased blood flow to the mucous membranes in my body.  My frustration is that my eyes are also itchy and dry, and I have a sinus headache/pressure.  Apparently this is common too.  UGH

I'm very anxious to feel baby move.  Most first time moms don't start feeling it until between 16-22 weeks.  I guess I'll have to be patient (I'm not very patient...at all).  The cool thing is that I have a home doppler.  A couple weeks ago, I started hearing a new sound when I found the heartbeat.  I'm pretty sure this is baby moving.